
Yes and no. The future is a very complex system that is made up of many different factors. Some of the things that influence our future are things we have no control over (fate, destiny, other people’s decisions etc…) and some of our future is based on our decisions that we make moment to moment. These things weave together like threads in a tapestry to create a complex and ever changing picture.
Some of the many elements that make up our future:
Our future gets created in a moment by moment flow, and can be as simple and as unconscious as “Hm, I think I’ll take the highway to work today…” to as thought out as who you are going to marry or if you are going to have children. (But don’t be fooled, there is a lot of fate in those choices too!)
When your psychic looks into the future what she sees is possibilities and probabilities based on where you are right now. It’s like you are standing at a crossroads looking at branches of the road going out in front of you, for example an ocean road, a forest road and a mountain road. Your psychic may see that there is a stronger possibility that you might go down the ocean path. However, when you get to that choice point, you might choose something else do. (Or that path may be chosen for you based on someone else’s choice.) So from the point in time when your psychic is looking that is the most probable. However the picture changes pretty quickly!
The future is not set in stone. We create much of our lives through our own choices. Except when we don’t.
Sometimes fate really does step in. Or we get impacted by other people’s choices all the time. (And on all levels of our being! From the choices our world leaders make, to the choices our friends, family, co-works, bosses and even total strangers!)
Here is an example. Say you come to your psychic and you want to know if you will get Job A, Job B or Job C. You could decide that you have your heart set on job A and your psychic sees that you have a good chance of getting it. However after you have the interview you may change your mind when you find out the particulars. (Your free will choice) Or you may long for that job and simply not get it, because they give the job to someone else (Someone else’s free will choice). Or the person who would have hired you moves to Timbuktu and the replacement hires someone else (Fate!).
So you may get to the choice point and find a completely different set of choices open to you, due to one of those factors that has nothing to do with your decisions.
You can sum this all up by saying that your psychic will only ever see probabilities and possibilities due to the complex nature of the future.
Whatever comes out in the reading will be something that you are ready to hear. Sometimes the information may be challenging or stretchy but it won’t be beyond your capacity to hear. The information is coming from your guides and they only tell your psychic things that will be helpful, useful or even healing for you to know.
You won’t hear anything really horrible, like the time and manner of your own death, or anyone else’s for that matter. This knowledge would not help you in any way.
Also your psychic will try to present challenges in a positive light, offering perspectives on how to use these opportunities to change and grow.
The tricky thing about life is that it is filled with circumstances that we don’t always like, but that we often need for our own growth. Sometimes you might hear things, that you already know, but that you wish weren’t so. (Like the job or relationship you are in is not a support experience for you.)
Sometimes we hear things we already know because we need confirmation that our gut is right, or we need affirmation and encouragement to make a change.
Your psychic will not hide unpleasant things from you, or see things that are bad and not tell you. Also your privacy will be respected so that your psychic will not see things you don’t want her to. Your own mind can shield information from the psychic that you don; want anyone to know.
You can also count on your privacy being respected outside of the session. Your psychic will not repeat the details of the reading to anyone.
We all have spiritual beings around us, helping to support and guide us through our lives. The good news is that we are not alone! There are many different kinds of guides. Here are some of them.
Your psychic gets information about you and your life by talking to your guides. We all have a unique combination of guides. Some stay with you your whole life and others come and go on a need basis. Some come to anyone who call them through prayer and so are available to everyone and others are there only for us. Some really talk and communicate with you (and your psychic!) others are there to work with you emotionally or energetically.
There has been some research lately that points to past lives as being a strong probability. Certainly many, many people have reported some kind of connection or belief in past lives. And it is belief held by many of the world religions.
Here are some very common ways we experience past lives all the time!
Past lives will sometimes come up in a reading when there is a strong need to heal or release something carried over from that life. Sometimes things that are not resolved in past lives carry over and cause problems and complications that need healing in this life.
Your psychic can help resolve this issues by uncovering the past life and telling you about it. Sometimes just hearing the past life will resolve the issues. Sometimes deeper healing work is needed. Your psychic may perform a past life regression, taking you back tot hat life and actually healing the and releasing the trauma that is still stuck from that.
The past lives that come up for healing are usually traumatic ones. We do have happy and fulfilling past lives but those ones don’t cause problems so they are not often recalled. Past lives regression is not a parlor trick for the curious, it is a deep healing opportunity and your psychic may not be able to access the past life information unless you have a genuine need to know and heal it.
The good news is that these sessions are not painful or particular difficult and they are always quite interesting. Often you will feel better right away as whatever past life issue that has been tugging on you is healed and resolved.
Yes, of course! The more questions you ask, the more likely you will enjoy your session. Your guides may want to talk about a lot of things and if you ask questions you will get a reading that is more tailored to your interests.
I want to “test” my psychic and not tell them anything, because I am skeptical and I want proof.
For some people, this is a necessary step in the process. It’s fine to be skeptical. There are a lot of poorly trained and inexperienced psychics out there. It is also an unfortunate truth that there are charlatans and fakes out there too. It’s important to make sure you are going to someone with a good reputation. So it’s ok to make sure that your psychic is the real McCoy.
Other people just need to believe that the spiritual world is real and require proof of this too.
You will get a different reading if you do this. Your reading may be about providing you with lots of details no one else could have known so you can relax your skepticism and begin to trust your psychic. Generally these readings don’t have the depth and healing nature of some one who is relaxed and already trusts and believes in their psychic, but it takes to build that trust. It’s ok to start where you are!
That is ok, lots of people are. Sometime people are nervous in the face of the unknown. If it is your first reading you may be nervous because it is a new experience.
Your psychic will help you feel less nervous by explaining what will happen in the reading and setting your expectations. Feel free to ask your psychic as many questions as you want before the session starts.
You’ll probably feel a lot less nervous after reading this FAQ!
It is true that many religions prohibit talking to spirits and there may be good reasons why they say this. It really isn’t a good idea to try this unless you are highly trained. Plenty of curious and ill-prepared amateurs have given themselves a good scare by using a Ouiji board. Ordinary folks really shouldn’t mess around this taking to spirits and all reputable psychics have had years of training.
I believe that these rules are in some religions to protect amateurs and that trained psychics can safely talk to spirits.
As far as it being evil, anything can be evil when used with evil intention. If your psychic is a healer with a good reputation, then they are using a tool for good. Can this tool be used for evil? Only in evil hands.
That is really up to you. I believe that you know what is best for you and so no one will tell you what is the best thing for you.
Some people come only once, get what they need from the reading and are all set. Some people come once a year around their birthdays. Some people come whenever they feel they need it, or when are having a crisis or are in transition.
Other people come every week for spiritual counseling sessions or classes.