If someone has difficulties in feeling, giving or receiving love, it doesn’t mean that you are not lovable. You are lovable, of course you are. It’s very hard to not take that personally, and yet, chances are very good it’s not about you.
We really feel like we can fix those folks if we just pour enough love on them. And then they will heal and love us back.
But that fix has to come from in the inside of them. We can’t make it happen.
Since the outer world is a reflection of our inner world, we sometimes meet people who show us that we are not loving ourselves enough yet.
Love them, bless them and then love and bless yourself even more.
When we deeply love and choose ourselves, then we call in people who love us the same way.
